"What Destroyed a friendship?"

GOSSIP!!

A simple story that is so true..worth reading this..

A woman repeated a bit of gossip about a neighbor. Within a few days the whole community knew the story. The person it concerned was deeply hurt and offended. Later the woman responsible for spreading the rumor learned that it was completely untrue. She was very sorry and went to a wise old sage to find out what she could do to repair the damage.

"Go to the marketplace," he said, "and purchase a chicken, and have it killed. Then on your way home, pluck its feathers and drop them one by one along the road."
Although surprised by this advice, the woman did what she was told.

The next day the wise man said, "Now go and collect all those feathers you dropped yesterday and bring them back to me."

The woman followed the same road, but to her dismay, the wind had blown the feathers all away. After searching for hours, she returned with only three in her hand.

"You see," said the old sage, "it's easy to drop them, but it's impossible to get them back. So it is with gossip. It doesn't take much to spread a rumor, but once you do, you can never completely undo the wrong.

When you feel down..

the only escape is to cry'

cause you feel the world is grey and it has a lot of shadows today...

And you're the only one in colors..

but you know you are also gonna change ...

You are gonna be grey, just like them...

What we gonna do?

Innocence is not enough...

a smile is not enough..

Nothing is good enough...

I'm sitting and Cryin'...

Is the best that I can do..

Wishing for a best worldWishing for you to come ...

What do you wish?

"Anatomy of Friendship"

I really think that childhood friendship is the most pure. it's free from the reasons and logic of adulthood and the poison that comes with it. The companions of our childhood always possess a certain power over our minds which hardly any later friend can obtain.

My mother used to ask me what is the most important part of the body. Through the years I would take a guess at what I thought was the correct answer. When I was younger, I thought sound was very important to us as humans, so I said, "My ears, Mommy."
She said, "No. Many people are deaf. But you keep thinking about it and I will ask you again soon."

Several years passed before she asked me again. Since making my first attempt, I had contemplated the correct answer. So this time I told her, "Mommy, sight is very important to everybody, so it must be our eyes."

She looked at me and told me, "You are learning fast, but the answer is not correct because there are many people who are blind."

Stumped again, I continued my quest for knowledge and over the years, Mother asked me a couple more times and always her answer was, "No. But you are getting smarter every year, my child."

Then last year, my grandpa died. Everybody was hurt. Everybody was crying. Even my father cried. I remember that especially because it was only the second time I saw him cry. My Mom looked at me when it was our turn to say our final goodbye to Grandpa. She asked me, "Do you know the most important body part yet, my dear?"

I was shocked when she asked me this now. I always thought this was a game between her and me. She saw the confusion on my face and told me, "This question is very important. It shows that you have really lived in our life. For every body part you gave me in the past, I have told you were wrong and I have given you an example why. But today is the day you need to learn this important lesson."

She looked down at me as only a mother can. I saw her eyes well up with tears. She said, "My dear, the most important body part is your shoulder."
I asked, "Is it because it holds up my head?"

She replied, "No, it is because it can hold the head of a friend or a loved one when they cry. Everybody needs a shoulder to cry on sometime in life, my dear. I only hope that you have enough love and friends that you will always have a shoulder to cry on when you need it."

luv,

Bbee..

Gunung Dato'

XPDC Gunung Dato'

Actually aktiviti nie dah bp mgu yg lepas..tp dek kesibukan aku kat opis..n tahap stress yg melampau..aku takde masa nak upload blog baru..so arinie..alang2 makan gaji buta..baik aku post blog yang nak basi nie..lol..

Jumaat malam,pas maghrib..ktrg dijadualkan bgerak n jumpe kat R&R Seremban tepat kul 9mlm..tp..biasalah..kalu janji tu..yg Nampak btg idung awal..aku,mie,zuby n zulin..seperti biasa la kan..tgu punya tgu punya tgu..kul 1030 jugak selebihnyer sampe kat situ..almaklum…kenyang perut suka hati..pe lagi..kami bgerak ke destinasi..kali nie baru betul konvoi..

Sampai kat Dato' da agak lewat..tak silap aku la..masa tu da pun kul 11lbh mcm tue..parking kete..sambil2 menunggu owner tapak..kami duk sembang2...sempat la snap gamba..ader citer best masa kat sini..sian timah..penyumbang terbesar dana xpdc kali nie..janjinyer 15 org..tp last2 group berpecah dua..yg group lg satu..menunjukkan keteroran yg tak bp hebat tue..memanjat malam2..lantak korang la kan..ade aku kesah...

Tak tahan ngn mata n tah nape aku tetiba hangin..aku angkat semua brg2..ajak zuby n zulin gerak ke tapak khemah..dekat setahun duk menunggu owner tapak..tp tak nampak2 gak batang idung..aku da fed up..lantak la..pasang jea la khemah lu..yg len..nanti citer..

Malam tue..ktrg tak borak lama..masing2 penat..aku tido tah pukul bp..terlampau penat kot..sedar2..kul 3 pg..ujan turun teramatlah lebat..kesian zuby n zulin..habis banjir tsunami khemah drg..last2..dalam kete gak drg lepak..

Pagi tue,tersasar plak bgn..agak lambat..kul 7lbh..selesai masak bfast n tuk lunch..kami packing2 barang..sumbat dalam kete..n memulakan pendakian..
Kali nie..mmg agak mencabar la route dier..tp aku enjoy..walaupun mencacak jea..tak de amaran..maybe sbb masa kot..kalu angsi..dekat 4 jam!! Nie 2 jam jea ktrg da sampe puncak!!

Sepanjang pendakian..ader bnyk jugak gamba yg sempat di snap oleh jurukamera tak btauliah ktrg..zuby n Haizam..bak2 bgaya lebih..n ala2 hapy..serah kat zulin n shira..lol..

Pemandanagn kat atas..tersangat la cantek!! Nauzubillah…mmg cantek..serious tak tipu!! Bnyk jugak aksi2 yg dirakam..

Pukul 3ptg..ktrg trun dari puncak..dan makan tgh ari..hahaha..lambat giler makan..tp mmg puas..n lapo..selesai makan..ktrg gerak trun dari Dato’ ke base camp..

Kesimpulan…mmg seronok..n thanks to all geng..Kak Shira,Kak Wan. Timah,Afizi, Haizam,Zuby n Zulin..Next xtvt..Jom kita ke Ledang!!

Stress yg terlampau..

Stress..semua org mesti pernah alami stress. dan aku salah sorang yg tak penah lari dari perasaan stress nie. Keje..kawan2..macam2 hal lah...

Cakap pasal keje..nie lah yg slalu bg stress yg teramat hebat tuk aku..tekanan beb..1 ting for sure..i love my job..wut im doing..i enjoy it..it just my superior..acting like shit..such a weird guy..DIKTATOR!!! not fair!!

Tp,sikap professional aku masih menebal lagi..ikut hati n marah..da lama aku maki hamun melawan ckp dier..takpelah..tuhan kan sayang org yg sabar..tak lama mana pun..nasihat dari kawan aku - pedulikan pe org nak ckp..lead a happy life..

Bbee