"What Destroyed a friendship?"

GOSSIP!!

A simple story that is so true..worth reading this..

A woman repeated a bit of gossip about a neighbor. Within a few days the whole community knew the story. The person it concerned was deeply hurt and offended. Later the woman responsible for spreading the rumor learned that it was completely untrue. She was very sorry and went to a wise old sage to find out what she could do to repair the damage.

"Go to the marketplace," he said, "and purchase a chicken, and have it killed. Then on your way home, pluck its feathers and drop them one by one along the road."
Although surprised by this advice, the woman did what she was told.

The next day the wise man said, "Now go and collect all those feathers you dropped yesterday and bring them back to me."

The woman followed the same road, but to her dismay, the wind had blown the feathers all away. After searching for hours, she returned with only three in her hand.

"You see," said the old sage, "it's easy to drop them, but it's impossible to get them back. So it is with gossip. It doesn't take much to spread a rumor, but once you do, you can never completely undo the wrong.

When you feel down..

the only escape is to cry'

cause you feel the world is grey and it has a lot of shadows today...

And you're the only one in colors..

but you know you are also gonna change ...

You are gonna be grey, just like them...

What we gonna do?

Innocence is not enough...

a smile is not enough..

Nothing is good enough...

I'm sitting and Cryin'...

Is the best that I can do..

Wishing for a best worldWishing for you to come ...

What do you wish?

"Anatomy of Friendship"

I really think that childhood friendship is the most pure. it's free from the reasons and logic of adulthood and the poison that comes with it. The companions of our childhood always possess a certain power over our minds which hardly any later friend can obtain.

My mother used to ask me what is the most important part of the body. Through the years I would take a guess at what I thought was the correct answer. When I was younger, I thought sound was very important to us as humans, so I said, "My ears, Mommy."
She said, "No. Many people are deaf. But you keep thinking about it and I will ask you again soon."

Several years passed before she asked me again. Since making my first attempt, I had contemplated the correct answer. So this time I told her, "Mommy, sight is very important to everybody, so it must be our eyes."

She looked at me and told me, "You are learning fast, but the answer is not correct because there are many people who are blind."

Stumped again, I continued my quest for knowledge and over the years, Mother asked me a couple more times and always her answer was, "No. But you are getting smarter every year, my child."

Then last year, my grandpa died. Everybody was hurt. Everybody was crying. Even my father cried. I remember that especially because it was only the second time I saw him cry. My Mom looked at me when it was our turn to say our final goodbye to Grandpa. She asked me, "Do you know the most important body part yet, my dear?"

I was shocked when she asked me this now. I always thought this was a game between her and me. She saw the confusion on my face and told me, "This question is very important. It shows that you have really lived in our life. For every body part you gave me in the past, I have told you were wrong and I have given you an example why. But today is the day you need to learn this important lesson."

She looked down at me as only a mother can. I saw her eyes well up with tears. She said, "My dear, the most important body part is your shoulder."
I asked, "Is it because it holds up my head?"

She replied, "No, it is because it can hold the head of a friend or a loved one when they cry. Everybody needs a shoulder to cry on sometime in life, my dear. I only hope that you have enough love and friends that you will always have a shoulder to cry on when you need it."

luv,

Bbee..

Gunung Dato'

XPDC Gunung Dato'

Actually aktiviti nie dah bp mgu yg lepas..tp dek kesibukan aku kat opis..n tahap stress yg melampau..aku takde masa nak upload blog baru..so arinie..alang2 makan gaji buta..baik aku post blog yang nak basi nie..lol..

Jumaat malam,pas maghrib..ktrg dijadualkan bgerak n jumpe kat R&R Seremban tepat kul 9mlm..tp..biasalah..kalu janji tu..yg Nampak btg idung awal..aku,mie,zuby n zulin..seperti biasa la kan..tgu punya tgu punya tgu..kul 1030 jugak selebihnyer sampe kat situ..almaklum…kenyang perut suka hati..pe lagi..kami bgerak ke destinasi..kali nie baru betul konvoi..

Sampai kat Dato' da agak lewat..tak silap aku la..masa tu da pun kul 11lbh mcm tue..parking kete..sambil2 menunggu owner tapak..kami duk sembang2...sempat la snap gamba..ader citer best masa kat sini..sian timah..penyumbang terbesar dana xpdc kali nie..janjinyer 15 org..tp last2 group berpecah dua..yg group lg satu..menunjukkan keteroran yg tak bp hebat tue..memanjat malam2..lantak korang la kan..ade aku kesah...

Tak tahan ngn mata n tah nape aku tetiba hangin..aku angkat semua brg2..ajak zuby n zulin gerak ke tapak khemah..dekat setahun duk menunggu owner tapak..tp tak nampak2 gak batang idung..aku da fed up..lantak la..pasang jea la khemah lu..yg len..nanti citer..

Malam tue..ktrg tak borak lama..masing2 penat..aku tido tah pukul bp..terlampau penat kot..sedar2..kul 3 pg..ujan turun teramatlah lebat..kesian zuby n zulin..habis banjir tsunami khemah drg..last2..dalam kete gak drg lepak..

Pagi tue,tersasar plak bgn..agak lambat..kul 7lbh..selesai masak bfast n tuk lunch..kami packing2 barang..sumbat dalam kete..n memulakan pendakian..
Kali nie..mmg agak mencabar la route dier..tp aku enjoy..walaupun mencacak jea..tak de amaran..maybe sbb masa kot..kalu angsi..dekat 4 jam!! Nie 2 jam jea ktrg da sampe puncak!!

Sepanjang pendakian..ader bnyk jugak gamba yg sempat di snap oleh jurukamera tak btauliah ktrg..zuby n Haizam..bak2 bgaya lebih..n ala2 hapy..serah kat zulin n shira..lol..

Pemandanagn kat atas..tersangat la cantek!! Nauzubillah…mmg cantek..serious tak tipu!! Bnyk jugak aksi2 yg dirakam..

Pukul 3ptg..ktrg trun dari puncak..dan makan tgh ari..hahaha..lambat giler makan..tp mmg puas..n lapo..selesai makan..ktrg gerak trun dari Dato’ ke base camp..

Kesimpulan…mmg seronok..n thanks to all geng..Kak Shira,Kak Wan. Timah,Afizi, Haizam,Zuby n Zulin..Next xtvt..Jom kita ke Ledang!!

Stress yg terlampau..

Stress..semua org mesti pernah alami stress. dan aku salah sorang yg tak penah lari dari perasaan stress nie. Keje..kawan2..macam2 hal lah...

Cakap pasal keje..nie lah yg slalu bg stress yg teramat hebat tuk aku..tekanan beb..1 ting for sure..i love my job..wut im doing..i enjoy it..it just my superior..acting like shit..such a weird guy..DIKTATOR!!! not fair!!

Tp,sikap professional aku masih menebal lagi..ikut hati n marah..da lama aku maki hamun melawan ckp dier..takpelah..tuhan kan sayang org yg sabar..tak lama mana pun..nasihat dari kawan aku - pedulikan pe org nak ckp..lead a happy life..

Bbee

Muka kau da la buruk..padan dgn perangai ko..buruk..

Hari nie aku nak citer sket pasal manusia tak tau malu a.k.a takde hidung a.k.a si tolol a.k.a kulit biawak jadian..
yea blogger2 semua..manusia seperti ayat di atas tue..bnyk..bersepah2 kat muka bumi nie..salah satu contoh nyer..ader kat taman aku tue..buduh tahap pe pun aku tak tau dah..bukan buduh lagi dah..bengap kot!

punyalahkalu bckp,dier punya nk bangga bukan men...tapi..guna gak barang2 aku..pakai gak harta aku..yg best nyer..makan makanan aku sampai habis..eiii..please la..halal ke haram?haha..sendiri pikir la..yg paling dumb ass nyer..curik c***** aku..masuk bilik aku dowh..bodoh sial..

plak tu,sedap2 mulut ckp org mcm2..tak sedar diri betul..aku rasa la dier nie kan..spesis beruk kot..tak pun lotong..elok duk utan la lagi bagus..mmg patut la kot kena sepak terajang dek bf sdiri..mulut macam longkang..

Kena sgt la dgn tajuk blog aku nie..muka kau da la buruk!! padan dgn perangai ko tue..BURUK..ko pakai la pe pun..tenyeh la pe pun kat muka ko tue..buruk siot!! yg sorang itam..sehitam hati nyer..haha.. couple yg sungguh peliks!!

sekian..trimas!!!

Lil Chief Efie

(Lil Chief - Efie)

Last week Aku sibuk ngn aktiviti outdoor. Lik dari angsi.. tak lepaskan peluang habiskan masa ngn lil chief. Kesian plak tgk muka anak ku yg sorang nie.. hujumg mgu duk uma jea ngn baby sitter nyer.

So Ahad tu, after lunch kami habiskan masa dgn lil chief. Kami ke Taman rimba komanwel ptg tue. sambil mandi sungai n tgk org menunggang kuda. Seronok betul lil chief berlari kat kawasan padang tue. sayang..camera aku tgal dalam kete plak. sempat amik gamba masa kat tepi sungai jea.ish..rugi2.. Tapi mmg lawa pemandangan kat situ.. Tenang jea..sayup mata memandang..


( Lil Chief n Mimin)

Malam tu, kami habiskan masa ke Giant jumpe family hby. Makan malam bersama. Sempat lil chief main kat taman indoor tue..seronok betul...

(Our Precious Gem)

Sayang Ibu...

Bbee

xpdc Gunung Angsi

(Group XPDC Mount Angsi - 17th April - 19th April 2009)

17hb April - 19hb April 09

Lepas keje that day,rushing lik uma..beg tak pack lagi nie..excited betul nak g angsi. Tepat kul 8 hubby n me pun gerak dari uma. Tinggal la lil' chief dengan nanny..

Perjalanan ke Ulu bendol mengambil masa 2 jam. punyelah laju si zu ni bawak kete..berlumber ala2 F1 kiranyer kami..haha..poyos jea..sampe2 kwsn pkhemahan,masing2 duk tepinga2 nk cari jln masuk..tue la kan..tdi bukan main laju..akhirnyer dgn kebijaksananan ku..(cehh..) jumpa la gak jln masuk. Set2 barang,kami pun bjalan ke tapak khemah. makanan siap menanti..macam tau2 jea masing2 tgh kebulur..selesai pasang khemah kami pun ape lagi..soruuu ler..

(Me n Hubby Enjoying our dinner n our time togather)

Aktiviti malam kami habiskan dgn mandi manda (gaya jaguh kg konon2 nyer) dan sembang2..mcm2 yang jd bualan..pengalaman masing2,kerja(uish..mana2 pun keje)..dan macam2 la..

(Dinner Preparation - Chicken BBQ)

Aku terjaga pg tue dek gelak tawa si zulina, bkn men gelak lagi sorang nie..agaknyer..hidup dier..gelak tue perkara wajib kot..haha..celik2 mata..student2 uniten da sibuk gotong-royong sediakan sarapan pg n bekalan sepanjang pendakian nanti. Masing2 teruja.. Selesai taklimat n pembacaan doa, Tepat jam 1045 pg kami pun memulakan pendakian.

(Semut2 hutan)

Sepanjang perjalanan, aku teruja dgn keindahan flora n fauna..(ceh ayat sastera) 1st stage tak la mencabar sgt. masing2 penuh ngn stamina lagi. happy n menyanyi2 gitu. selepas 20min perjalanan kami sampai ke check point pertama. Rehat sebentar bersama kit kat..haha.. peluang yg ader tak dilepaskan..semua sibuk bergamba..takpe2..suka2 lagi..

Kami teruskan perjalanan..kali nie agak susah sket la.. da mula mendaki..tp tak la tgi mana lagi..dipendekkan cerita,setelah bp kali tah berhenti..ahli2 kongres yg pancit kat blakang tue..1jam setengah klemudian..kami tiba ke check point seterusnya..ha..nie la bmula nyer pendakian kami yg amat mencabar.. 7 tingkat klcc la konon2nyer kan.. sudut kecerunan 85 darjah. mmg payah.. pancit..mmg pancit..

(Trek ke Puncak Angsi - climbing)

Setelah bersusah payah mendaki..akhirnyer 1 jam kemudian kami sampai jugak ke puncak angsi..huu..lega..perkara pertama yg aku buat..pe lagi..bergambo ler..kewajipan..puas bgamba, aku duk berehat sementara menunggu pendaki2 yg lain sampai.sempat gak la tido..penat tak terkata..lemah kepala lutut nie..huh!!

Kami makan tengah hari dgn menu istimewa - maggi kari!! yg mudah dah cepat.. Jam 330ptg kami mulakan perjalanan kami menuruni puncak angsi..kalu dikirakan..masa mendaki lebih kurang 4 jam (sbb bnyk sgt benti nyer) . Dan masa tuk turun plak 2 jam suku. sekali je benti. jgn ingat jalan trun tak mencabar beb..sakit lutut..pinggang nie..

(Pemandangan Dari Puncak Angsi)

(Kasut ku yg terkopak sudah)

(Bergambar di Mercu Tanda Puncak Gunung Angsi)

(Puncak Angsi - The Whole Group)

Kesimpulannyer, xpdc nie mmg sgt seronok sekali.. Kepada sesaper yg tak penah g angsi tue..boleh la cuba. Pengalaman yg mmg tak dapat dilupakan n manis gitu.. bangga la,dapat jugak sampe puncak walaupun tak setinggi Kinabaalu.. Alhamdulillah..

Info kaki2 gunung :

Sirkit Cabaran Mendaki Gunung Negeri Sembilan kembali lagi untuk tahun 2009. Pertandingan kali ini masih di bawah anjuran Kerajaan Negeri Sembilan melalui Unit Penggalakan Pelancongan Negeri Sembilan (UPENS) dgn kerjasama Persatuan Mendaki dan Kegiatan Luar N. Sembilan (MENDAKI N9).Sirkit kali ini akan menampilkan perlumbaan ke 3 buah gunung utama di NS iaitu Gunung Datuk, Gunung Tampin dan Gunung Angsi. Antara yang menarik untuk 2009 ialah ganjaran hadiah untuk pemenang akan ditingkatkan manakala laluan perlumbaan tetap menyajikan cabaran yang lebih menarik. Info berkenaan sirkit ni seperti berikut;
Tarikh:Gunung Datuk - 4 April 2009
Gunung Tampin - 16 Mei 2009
Gunung Angsi - 27 Jun 2009
Kategori:Terbuka - 21 ke atas
Remaja - 13 - 21 thn
Penyertaan - Terbuka RM10 Remaja RM5
Hadiah:
1.RM500+plak
2.RM400+plak
3.RM300+plak
4 hingga 10. RM50

Pembayaran Yuran - 7pagi - 9pagi (pd hari pertandingan)
Waktu Pertandingan - 9.30 pagi
Untuk keterangan lanjut, sila hubungi
Unit Penggalakan Pelancongan 06--7659734 atau seketariat MENDAKI N9 ditalian
06-7634830 / fax 06-7634830


Bbee..